TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS is cautionary narrative about a young woman who leaped before she looked. Unfortunately she ignored signs of trouble before it was too late, but trusted that things would just get better. After all she was raised to believe that there are no perfect relationships and that if unpleasantness came her way she must have done something to deserve it somewhere along the way. She believed the old saying that: Time Heals All Wounds. Just as in real life situations of this sort, the song ends in tragedy.
The Real Truth is that if we consult God and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit, instead of following the lust of our eyes and just leaving things to chance and hoping for the best, we will not end up in such precarious spots. I am aware that many will not agree with this assessment and think that I am overspiritualizing. Well..... I'm just saying what I'm saying. Facts bear out that when we consult God, and let our goal for getting into a relationship in the first place be to walk in Agape Love instead of so much faaaaallllliinnng into eros love; lapses in judgement are fewer and definitely less precarious. But , you may ask, "what about chemistry?". Glad you asked! God is the original matchmaker and he is very good at it! He aint' new to chemistry! If you allow Him to help you discover the mate that He created for you, you can bank on the fact that the chemistry and everything else for compatibility will be in place. The opposite of faith is fear. If we walk in desperation fearing that we will never find the person designed specifically for us then settling for something else is not far behind, and that can end up being bearable, or unpleasant , or even dangerous. If we walk in fear and desperation we are proving to God that we do not trust Him! So now you ask, " What if I'm already in this situation?" "If I stay and pray, shouldn't God change my mate?" Again, glad you asked, my answer to you is a question-
If you are the beloved of God (and you are) do you really think for one second it is His will for you to be somebody's punching bag at all? Blink once for yes ....... twice for no........ I sincerely hope you blinked twice. If you are in a physically abusive relationship.. you are in the wrong relationship FIND THE NEAREST EXIT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. I know it's not necessarily easy but it is necessary!!! -- hope you enjoy the song... more to come.. G.S.
